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Saturday, August 2, 2008

Happy Friendship Day

As Richa drove her car out of the Office parking lot, we moved our discussion towards friendship, we at times talk sense, and then I realised that I have really very few carryover friends. By carryover friends I mean those who were in school and colleges and now although you have moved on in life but still have them. I found out that we both have the same number 12 -14. Sad ain't it with so many acquaintances and orkut profile showing 250 plus friends you might be hoping to have atleast 10% success rate isnt it. but no such luck.
You all must not have forgotten the days when we used to write essays and invariably "My Best Friend" used to be the most revised one. Yeah those were the days of childhood innocence. Best friend. Secrets. You used to share your secrets with your best friend. The person who knew you like the back of his hand and vice versa. The person whom you blindly believed.
You grow and the best friend-list increase so now u have a best friends group. You might not share everything with everyone. But when all of them are put together they form the entire life of your's. You still have secrets and you still share them with your best friends, but probably you chose what and whom to share with.
We make many friends some we carry and some we dont. Its nt tht we dnt like them and we stop calling them our friends, we grow and at times we grow differntly. We never thght that we mi8 end up the way we r 2day and probably thts wat has made us grow away. But we shud remeber tht when we were friends we never mde conditions r set rules, so now when we r grown up why do we expect the other person to be the way i am or to think same.
Friendship is the support system that you look for when u bogged down, when u want to relive those carefree days of childhood innocence. Physical proximity mi8 nt be problem today, with mobile, sms, social networks and other such techie-saviness we re able to be in touch although staying fr apart.
One thing tht friendship hs taught me is to be myself when in company of friends. Abhishek (Vijay) puts in very practically that we are friends coz we enjoy each others cmpny and we know tht the other one is listening when i am talking and vice versa. I agree. I know my friends are no agony aunts but we share our problems coz we know he mi8 nt be able to solve it but would defini8ly shre it.

THIS IS FOR ALL MY FRIENDS: I DONT KNOW WHERE THE LIFE WOULD TAKE US FEW YEARS DOWN THE LINE AND NO MATTER WHERE WE END UP, WE WOULD ALWEZ BE FRIENDS... FRIENDSHIP IS SOMETHING THAT FILLS THE HOLLOWNESS IN YOU, IT COMPLETES YOU.

This is dedicated to all my friends... Love u all guys.... Happy Friendship Day

2 comments:

Ritu Fotedar said...

Hi....:)

This one is cool... (don't want to say it.. but u deserve it :))..felt that this piece never ended..

cheers to our friendship...:)

Happy frNDshIP day my dear friend..!!!

God bless..

Unknown said...

hi!!!

"A road to a frnds house is never too long"...i hope, even staying miles away...
our frndship stays forever.

Its really gud to have u as my frnd.

wish u great life ahead.
shilpa